Honey Do’s

Your list of things to do has probably inflated- much like your partners belly.  But keep in mind, it’s all for a good cause.  The end result of your hard work pays off with the delivery of your son or daughter. Now, that’s more rewarding than some trophy you put in the attic, isn’t it?

Here are 5 things that pregnant women love, but might not… okay, definitely won’t ask for.

-Cook her dinner (or breakfast or lunch).  Try to include plenty of fresh vegetables and fruits, and don’t leave out the protein. Don’t forget to light a few candles.  Click here for a great, easy, recipe.

-Go with her to doctor’s appointments.  You’ll hear firsthand what is really going on inside that tummy of hers.

Surprise her with something special. Pick up flowers, a pint of ice cream, or maybe that sweater she’s been eyeing.  Treating her to something special will make you both feel great.

-Go on a date. Time to yourselves is coming to an end (at least for a while). Go out to dinner at your favorite restaurant, pack a picnic and head to the park, take her out to see a movie, or re-invent a special memory that you share. Even treat her to a well deserved massage (but don’t ask for the favor to be returned!)

-Listen to her! During pregnancy, your partner might experience mood swings, mental fogginess, forgetfulness, headaches, fears, pains, disconnection, concerns about being a good parent, and many other stressors. Sometimes, all she wants to do is vent.  Let her!  Sit back and listen.  You might learn a thing or two.  More importantly, you’ll be able to console her and that is probably what she really wants and needs right now.

Taking the initiative to provide love and support to your partner shows her that you care about her well being and that of your child.  Not only that, but, it reassures your partner that she isn’t going through this alone. That you are, in fact, right beside her.